secrets to living hapilly with your couples!!

You see them holding hands at the movies,strolling arm in arm on the street,shopping mall and many places. These are the happy couples..How do they do it?for your information here the secrete;1- There's are strong connection when you first meet. Ask any happy couple and they probably tell you they felt an instant connection and experienced a profound rapport when they first met. So, there is some truth to the saying "love at the first sight". 2- Different personalities, shared value. This delicate balance allows couples to realize that elusive combination of friendship (based on shared values) and passion (based on different). In many happy relationship,couples manage to be friends and lovers at once, an impressive achievement given that the conditions of friendship are in some ways diametrically opposed to the conditions that promote desire. 3- Respect for each other. A girl in a happy relationship know her man respects her ideas, beliefs and values regardless of whether he understand or egress with them. His love and respect are unconditional;he doesn't judge her. He may express an opinion, but the relationship is secure enough that she is free to disagree. 4- Your partner is always your best friends. Truly happy couples use the phrase "best friends", to describe their relationship. By "best friend", they mean they like each other best, above all others. They spend large amount of time together, talking, and pursuing joint interest. Whatever it is they want to do together. 5- No grudges. Of course, some argue more often and more fiercely than others. But contented couples say the real secret to their happiness is their ability to avoid getting vicious. So,if and when you quarrel, don't ever keep a grudge. When faced with a conflicts,it's okay to blow up and storm about,but then you've got to make a conscious decision to move on. 6- Roll with the changes. Most couples will change a great deal throughout the course of their relationship. Only the few will feel they are exactly the same people they where when they first got together. But happy couples always feel they've change for the batter. 7- Always focus on the positive. As psychologists have known for many years,positive expectations exert a tremendous force for positive result. Couples thrive in a relationship when their partners focus on the positive aspects of their personality and belive each other. 8- Passion and Romance. Many happy couples say friendship is more important than sex. However,a large number of relationship are founded in a deeply sexual love. 9- Power is not a problem. If a man and women truly love each other,they will not battle each other for dominance to see who comes out on top. This is not to say that there is no conflict whatsover in the relayionship,but reather,the arguments are neve,at any level about power and status. In a stable relationship,who pays for what would normally have been sorted out very early on in the relationship!!!

"pieces of me"ahahahahaha!

Water flows through rivers
As it flows through my eyes
They say a pieces dreamer
Has lived other lives!
There something more there, i can see it clear
not something you hold in your hand
the end of the circle
it ends with me in eternity
The poet and the dreamer
creating pieces flow
there is world that we possess
that all of you cant know
Beyond just what you can see lies darkness
my life it changes with everything around me
sometime need to go get the hell out of here!!
If you are a soul in need
if you need compassion
i will stand up like a wall right by your side
i can tell what others can tell..
yes, i can read your mind!
Pieces belong in other world at another time
Neptune rules my hours
devoted by your side
The hearth of the pieces
soul lives through time..
through time..
Only you know the answer...

How to make "Sardine Croquettes"

Ingredients we need:

• 1 tbsp olive oil
• 1 large onion, peeled and chopped
• 2 cans (200g) sardines (you can use any type of sardines what you want)
• 3 medium size potatoes, boiled and skin peeled off
• little bit salt and paper to taste (depends on you)
• 1 1/2 tbsp sweet relish (available at supermarkets)
• juice of 2 limes
• 1 egg
• 2 cups breadcrumbs
• 1 cup oil for deep frying

Step 1- heat the olive oil in a pan over medium fire. When hot,stir fry onion until soft, about 30 second, then sardines.
Step 2- mash boiled potatoes. Add to sardines and onion mix in pan. Season with salt and paper then remove from fire.
Step 3- Add sweet relish and lime juice to the sardine potato mix. Allow to cool for 5 minutes. To make croquettes, press the mixture into oval or round shapes.
Step 4- Lightly beat egg in a bowl. Dip croquettes individually into the egg. Coat completely with egg.
Step 5- Place breadcrumbs on a plate. Roll croquettes lightly over. Place on a tray and chill in the fridge for at least 30 minutes.
Step 6- Heat oil in a pan until hot. Deep fry croquettes until golden brown and crispy, then drain on paper towels. Serve with thousand island sauce or any types of sauce you want.
This recipe i learned from magazine and i already try make it. The test very good and delicious! because the combination of sardines and the potatoes very match. You all can try make it. I sure you will satisfy when you taste it!

How to make "CHOCOLATE CUP CAKE"

Ingredients we need:

• 1 1/3 cups plain flour
• 2 tsp baking powder
• 1/3 cup cocoa
• 3 tbsps butter, softened
• 1 1/2 cups caster sugar
• 2 eggs
• 1 cup milk

To make it first you need to preheat oven at 180'c. Meanwhile, sift together flour, baking powder and cocoa in a bowl. Set aside.
second, use mixer to cream butter and sugar until light and fluffy. Add eggs one at one time, beating well with each addition.
Third, add the flour alternately with the milk, and beat well. Then line a muffin pan with paper cups. Fill the muffin cups with the mixture until three quarters full.
Lastly bake it for 15 minutes, or until a skewer inserted into the cupcake comes out clean.
This recipe very easy, simple, delicious and the coast is cheapest. Try make it with you own self!^ ^